Not a Merry Christmas

Thursday, December 25

As you can tell by the title it has been a Christmas that would rather be forgotten. Tyler continues to feel extremely bad and is still in the hospital extremely sick. His fever remains very high and he was septic today. Sarah said she hasn't seen him look this bad since he started treatment. They were very concerned for Tyler yesterday and this morning. He became so weak and very grey in color and he has been bleeding from the nose. The doctor's still remain baffled as to what is making him so sick. He had a blood transfusion and platelets to help with his counts and to help with his nose bleeds. He is on so many different antibiotics to treat a possible viral, bacterial and even fungal infection. While Sarah keeps her faith that God is holding them tight, she was feeling so overwhelmed today. She is so distressed and low. Sarah and Charles covet you prayers for their boy as he is not responding to any medications to fight off what ever it is he has. On a day that is so bright for so many it is dark for them. Sarah said she would trade all of her earthly possessions along with all of her money to have Tyler's health restored. She can never explain how bad of a situation this is and only people who have experienced this can know the true torture it places on a family. To see your child suffer so and not be able to do anything is excruciating for a parent.

Last night Charles and Sarah were given the opportunity to shop for presents that St. Jude offered their patients who had to be in the hospital for Christmas. They selected gifts for Tyler, Elijah and Christian from hundreds of gifts that were donated from stores. St. Jude wrapped the presents and Santa placed them in his big red bag and delivered them to the boys this morning. The family spent the night in an adjoining room so they could be with Tyler the first thing this morning. Unfortunately, Tyler was so sick he couldn't open any of the presents until later this afternoon. Sarah said she has never seen so many gifts from the hospital, their friends in Louisville and family. She said it was amazing and the kids have never had anything like this before but she would trade all of the presents for a normal day at home with just healthy boys. They so appreciated the "light" of encouragement to help them through this dark time.

Please take time out for special prayer today for Tyler. Every time we come together as a family God responds by giving Tyler a healing boost. He definitely needs one at this time. Thanks for your love and concern. Happy Birthday Jesus! Stay close! Kim

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is baffling the doctors one of your specialties? You do it a lot :( I hope you start to feel better! We are always praying for you and the doctors and nurses at st.Jude! Get well soon!
Love always Barry Family

Mary Beth :] said...

Heyy Tyler!! I'm so sorry that you were in the hospital on Christmas! That must have stunk! :( I really hope you get better soon because everyone here and I especially want to see you. I hope you enjoyed your presents you got and I hope that you start feeling better! Remeber, God is with you and were always prayong! I love you Tyler!! Stay Strong!

-Mary Beth <3 :D

Anonymous said...

tyler,
im so sorry to hear that you're really sick. i hope you liked your presents! you can get through this buddy, we all know it.

love you!
em

Anonymous said...

Dear Tyler, We have many friends praying for you. This will pass and better days are ahead for you. Just rest and let your body heal itself. You are the bravest younf boy I know! We hope one day we can sit and talk with you. Praying for you everyday, The Scull Family

Anonymous said...

Im sorry that you were sick on Christmas. i hope u liked your presents!! Im still lookin for green pants for you!! Hope you feel better soon!!ILY!!
love, the almighty
sarah

Anonymous said...

hey tyler!!!

FeEl BeTtEr!!!!
we miss you so much and are praying for you constantly.... you CAN and WILL make it through this... we love you...

:) taylor jackson

Anonymous said...

TYLER!!! You are the strongest young man that I know....You have been so brave and fearless during this whole ordeal....You have looked adversity in the face and have always come out smiling that beautiful smile of yours....I know that you are tired, but you MUST stay strong....We pray for you daily and I know (we all know) that you can do it....GOD has a plan and unfortunately, we do not always understand it, but I do know one thing.....You will be cancer free and come back to all of your friends in Louisville, KY....Your friends from CAL, Lake Forest neighbors, and Southeast Christian Church miss you sooooo much......Just take one day at a time......and before you know it, you will be here where you belong....We all love and miss you so much.......Pam, Chris, Chelsea, Cassidy and Daisy........

Anonymous said...

Hey Tyler. I really hope you feel better. Chemo must be tough. I'm praying for you and I know that hundreds of others are too. Just keep your faith in Jesus. He'll never leave you or forsAke you.

Mrs. Hickman said...

Hi Tyler! My name is Pam Hickman. I am Mary Beth's mom! Wanted you to know that we are praying for you and will continue to pray for healing! I know it is hard to understand but you are such an inspiration to me! You have reminded me how important daily life is....you are so strong.... I know God is with you! Get well soon, Tyler! God Bless you and your family! Mrs. Hickman

Anonymous said...

hey tyler, im so sorry that you were in the hospital during Christmas that really stinks. i really really hope that you get better soon because we all miss you here!! i hope you liked your presents! we are always praying for you, please stay strong! God is with you!

<3 natalie